You’ve Got a Friend…That Will Last Forever
James Taylor made history when he sang a song called You’ve Got a Friend in the early 1970s. Carol King, another great singer/composer of that time period, wrote the lyrics.
I’ve always loved that song and remember it every once in a while as I hum the tune.
It’s quite a simple song and talks about what it says in the title…that a friend will be there for you when you need them, no matter what. I think it’s great to be the recipient of that kind of care…and we all need it…regardless of whether we deserve it or not.
Back in November I went to one of the many book signings. While there, I had a number of surprises, one of which was getting to see two childhood friends who grew up in one of the 12 houses on our little country road.
Peggy and her sister, Thelma, came to see me, get a book,
and visit for awhile. We had a great time and it was obvious both of them had a full and satisfying life. I was as happy for them as they were for me. They also had a chance to visit with my mother who was good friends with their mom. Thelma has on the lovely aqua sweater here.
The next week, Peggy sent me an e-mail telling me that Thelma had been diagnosed with final stages of cancer…that they gave her little time to live, and explained how sad it all was. They have been best of friends for their entire life, and this was going to be hard…but Peggy knew she was going to do all she could to support Thelma during the time they had left.
This morning, Thelma died after a grueling last few days. She leaves family, including children and grandchildren behind, and a sister who was a best friend.
Being with friends in time of need is so important. It doesn’t have to be life threatening situations, but even the simplest of needs often just seek out those who care unconditionally and know how to provide support and encouragement.
All of us deserve that special person or persons in our life that can be there for us…just like James Taylor so eloquently sang in the song.
My wish for you today is that you embrace the friendships you have nurtured and make sure you are a giver as well as a receiver. Spouses or significant others can be those friends, too. All of our relationships should strive to be supportive. May they be as naturally nurturing and caring as you deserve.
~ Joellen