{"id":565,"date":"2008-10-12T14:11:38","date_gmt":"2008-10-12T18:11:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/?p=565"},"modified":"2008-10-17T04:58:25","modified_gmt":"2008-10-17T08:58:25","slug":"spice-up-your-relationship-this-fall","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/?p=565","title":{"rendered":"Spice up Your Relationship this Fall"},"content":{"rendered":"

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October is here and it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s time for the smells of fall\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6.pumpkins, cinnamon, turkey. \u00c2\u00a0I call it the flavors of the season.\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Since relationships are important to all of us, it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s critical to continue to consider the spice in your life \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 regardless of the season. \u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

There are many things you can to do rekindle a solid \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 or even troubled \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 relationship if both of you do it in a kind and loving spirit and are willing to work closely together to make it stronger.\u00c2\u00a0 The very best thing is to refocus positive energies on communication at all levels of your partnership and watch your relationship kindle around the warm spirit of your hearts!<\/p>\n

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Here are some fun ways to consider rekindling the fall passion in your life so you can be reminded that the forthcoming holiday season is a time to celebrate for many reasons. Some of these have been passed on to me and some are my tried and true ideas.\u00c2\u00a0 I suspect that, after reading them, you can use your own imagination to come up with some on your own that will be pleasing to your partner.\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Warm his\/her socks\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Cook him\/her a heart-shaped meatloaf<\/span><\/p>\n

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Carve his\/her initials on a walking stick or on a tree<\/span><\/p>\n

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Draw an \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I Love You\u00e2\u20ac\u009d sign on the sidewalk with chalk so he\/she will see it on the way in<\/span><\/p>\n

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Dress up like Cupid or wear some other hot little costume just for him\/her\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6remember, Halloween will soon be here\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6but why wait!?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Put her on a pedestal<\/span><\/p>\n

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Buy her fresh flowers just because\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Change the kitty litter or take out the trash without her\/him asking you to do it<\/span><\/p>\n

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Help clean up after dinner\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Listen\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6really listen… without any interruptions<\/span><\/p>\n

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Understand<\/span><\/p>\n

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Pamper her in a way you are sure to please her<\/span><\/p>\n

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Smell flowers together<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ignore her\/his faults for a day\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6or more<\/span><\/p>\n

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Cook dinner for her<\/span><\/p>\n

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Paint her toenails<\/span><\/p>\n

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Buy and cut a pumpkin together<\/p>\n

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Spend time with the kids so she can sleep<\/span><\/p>\n

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Take turns giving each other a backrub<\/span><\/p>\n

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Don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t fight<\/span><\/p>\n

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Empathize\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Blindfold him\/her and go on a trip to somewhere special<\/span><\/p>\n

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Pamper him\/her in a way you are sure will please him\/her\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Gaze into her\/his eyes<\/span><\/p>\n

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Rock him\/her to sleep<\/span><\/p>\n

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Share \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Dove\u00e2\u20ac\u009d chocolates and read the sayings together<\/span><\/p>\n

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Send a love note in the mail to him\/her<\/span><\/p>\n

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Invite him\/her to take a walk together early in the morning or late in the afternoon<\/span><\/p>\n

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Massage his\/her scalp<\/span><\/p>\n

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Hide little surprises<\/span><\/p>\n

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My wish for you today<\/em><\/strong>\u00c2\u00a0is that you are the recipient of some of these little \u00e2\u20ac\u0153spices of life\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and that you, when the time is right, share some of these with someone close to you. For those of us not in a relationship right now, look for these kinds of characteristics in those you may be considering a relationship with. \u00c2\u00a0You deserve to have someone in your life you can pamper and who will be capable and willing to spice up your life, too!<\/span><\/p>\n

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~ Joellen<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

October is here and it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s time for the smells of fall\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6.pumpkins, cinnamon, turkey. \u00c2\u00a0I call it the flavors of the season.\u00c2\u00a0 Since relationships are important to all of us, it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s critical to continue to consider the spice in your life \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 regardless of the season. \u00c2\u00a0 There are many things you can to do rekindle […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27,45,4,3,31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-565","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-living-life-to-the-fullest","category-love","category-relationships-marriage","category-relationships-singles","category-releationships-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/565","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=565"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/565\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=565"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=565"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reflectionsfromacountrygirl.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=565"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}